The Importance of the First Years: Why Home Is Better Than Kindergarten for Young Children

The first years of a child’s life are the foundation for their future development. These early years not only shape their brain and emotions but also help them build a sense of security. While the majority of parents choose to enroll their young children in kindergarten early, research has shown that staying home during this period can be more beneficial. A loving and nurturing home environment provides the best setting for emotional bonding, natural learning, and, most of all, a strong sense of security.

Unfortunately, our society often pressures parents to send their children to kindergarten early, believing it will give them an academic advantage. However, young kids thrive best in environments where they feel safe, loved, and free to explore at their own pace. At home, they receive individual attention, develop emotional resilience, and learn through everyday experiences.

I wouldn’t say that kindergarten is not good at all, but as long as parents have the time and ability to teach and nurture their children themselves, that would undoubtedly be the better option. I believe that prioritizing a strong home foundation in the early years can lead to more confident and emotionally secure individuals. Children who spend more time at home in their early years have the opportunity to develop strong emotional regulation, better language skills, and a deeper sense of security.

Kindergarten can be overwhelming for young children. Large groups, strict schedules, and constant stimulation can be stressful, often leading to anxiety or behavioral changes. In contrast, at home, children experience a calmer environment, a flexible schedule, and a variety of activities at their own pace. This supports their natural need for rest, play, and exploration without pressure.

And let’s not forget that building a strong foundation for the future starts with us, as their parents. A child’s first teachers should be their parents. It is our duty to shape them and teach them the fundamental skills they will need throughout their lives—not through pressure, but through love, play, and everyday experiences.

And to all the mamas and parents out there who are trying to raise mentally and intellectually strong, stable, and kind children—I see you. I know the journey is hard, and there are days when you might doubt yourself or feel overwhelmed. But believe me, you are doing absolutely the most incredible job ever. The love, patience, and dedication you pour into your children every single day will shape who they become. Even in the small, unnoticed moments—when you comfort them, teach them, or simply spend time with them—you are building the foundation of their future. So take a deep breath, trust yourself, and know that your effort, love, and presence mean everything to them. You are their safe place, their first teacher, and their greatest source of love. Keep going—you are doing amazing!